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Title: weird relationship with mother. Post by: rapror496 on April 26, 2015, 12:59:17 PM Quick question, my BPDex goes nuts when her mom is in the picture she was
Not around untill the last couple of months of our relationship. The have a terrible backstory with the mother being institutionalized several times and falsely accusing her husband of abuse. The first 2 years of our relationship were fine without her around. No cheating or anything else. As soon as her mom came back buy buying her a 30000 dollars car she started triangulate ing me with friends which eventually led to our breakup. Everyone was proud of her accomplishments and progress and can't figure out why she is now cheating on my replacement. When before she was almost a different person. Is their any reason her why her behaviour changes? Title: Re: weird relationship with mother. Post by: vortex of confusion on April 26, 2015, 03:01:17 PM A messed up family of origin (FOO) can really do a number on a person.
I have witnessed it in my own family repeatedly. My siblings will be doing fine and then they get too involved with our parents and things will go downhill fast. If she has a terrible back story with her mother, the change in behavior could be due to the wounds of childhood being reopened. It is like what happens when you pick at a scab before the sore is healed. It starts hurting and bleeding again. Dealing with her mother could be like picking off a scab. It is making her hurt and bleed and act different because of the emotional turmoil that she is in. Title: Re: weird relationship with mother. Post by: shatterd on April 26, 2015, 07:20:37 PM naild it vortex, god forbid if i pointed that out, theres not a man alive that can survive this, they will eat you poop you out and repeat forever lol ouch
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