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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Turkish on May 01, 2015, 01:01:46 PM



Title: Technology Enabler
Post by: Turkish on May 01, 2015, 01:01:46 PM
I got a new phone. For some reason, it synced my new calendar with that of my Ex through gmail, even though I disabled that on my desktop interface. That was because the one time she offered to share calendars for custody purposes, I saw an entry which showed her tryst times with my replacement, and I saw a comment about them doing a good job managing their time together through the calendar given the circumstances. She was still living with us  

If this had happened a year ago, I'd be mightily triggered. I guess it's a testament to my detachment that it was just annoying. At least the entries just said "my event" on hers, so I didn't see the details. I disabled the sync, though her name still shows up.

If I wasn't biased against the iphone for personal reasons, I'd have gone with one instead.


Title: Re: Technology Enabler
Post by: Reforming on May 01, 2015, 01:30:13 PM
All I can say is well done. You've come a long way