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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: .cup.car on May 04, 2015, 07:52:38 AM



Title: I think it's over now
Post by: .cup.car on May 04, 2015, 07:52:38 AM
She violated the court order last Thursday.

We weren't even allowed to make indirect jabs at each other on social media, and she did exactly that. On a community page we both follow, there were a couple posts in a row by others that reminded her of me and I guess she couldn't help herself. Took a shot at me and carefully tip-toed around my name, then deleted her comment a few hours later.

Google's cache didn't, so I capped it and brought it to the police. She won't be charged due to certain outdated Canadian laws, but I was told the police would contact both her and her dad. The cops aree seeing it for what it is - mental illness - and will address that aspect with her Dad, which is a huge step in the right direction.

I'm so thankful for this because her dad will finally stop blaming me for his daughter's problems; yet now I kinda expect her to do something wild like slash my tires.