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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: rarsweet on May 04, 2015, 01:05:52 PM



Title: dr appointment
Post by: rarsweet on May 04, 2015, 01:05:52 PM
Daughter had 9 month checkup today. Dr asked where she sleeps and ex said she goes to bed in a pack and play and naps on a fold out couch. Dr was questioning him about the couch and ex got so defensive, voice wobbling, hands shaking, told the doc he knew what he was doing. He wouldn't answer what kind of formula he gives her, said he mostly gives her water and Gatorade. Told the doctor she knows how to chew, when the doc was just reminding us about choking. First time I saw the doc and the nurse look at him weird. I had previously kind of been "saving him" whenever he would mumble and just talk nonsense at the doctors. This time I purposely turned around and walked daughter around while the doc was talking to him. No more helping him out.


Title: Re: dr appointment
Post by: david on May 04, 2015, 06:58:43 PM
Just make sure the doc is putting it all in the records as they are legal documents.


Title: Re: dr appointment
Post by: momtara on May 04, 2015, 10:57:51 PM
eek, this is disturbing. haven't been following your story, but, water and gatorade? how often does he have her? sounds like maybe shouldn't have overnights yet.


Title: Re: dr appointment
Post by: Turkish on May 04, 2015, 11:27:28 PM
Do the medical professionals know that you are seperated?