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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: rarsweet on May 14, 2015, 02:03:06 PM



Title: his explanation of how i am unfit
Post by: rarsweet on May 14, 2015, 02:03:06 PM
Ex answered interrogatories. He questions my parenting, I expose daughter to people who smoke, I have in her in I'll fitting clothes and soaked diapers,  she is overtired, and I cannot communicate without rolling my eyes. Hence I am unfit.


Title: Re: his explanation of how i am unfit
Post by: Ishenuts on May 14, 2015, 02:19:06 PM
How do you live with yourself?

Only kidding, of course! We all are unfit, according to "them". One big Island of Misfit Toys (adults). Fortunately, their criticisms are so ridiculous, no one takes them seriously.

Hang in there!


Title: Re: his explanation of how i am unfit
Post by: GaGrl on May 14, 2015, 02:30:50 PM
It's been mentioned often, often, often on this site that the first filings contain statements, accusations, etc. that can be hurtful or exaggerated or untruthful.  Don't allow yourself to dwell on it except to know where he's coming from so that you and your L can strategize next steps.


Title: Re: his explanation of how i am unfit
Post by: rarsweet on May 14, 2015, 07:10:29 PM
I have every medical record since I was pregnant. She is a healthy breastfed baby, 75% for weight,95% for height, no rashes, flu, nothing, just an ear infection in January. And I am involved in 3 programs with her that are mandated reporters, a child development program, a christian based parenting program, and a domestic violence survivors program. They see her or I every Monday and every other Wednesday. He is just so full of it. Oh and Le leche league we go to also.


Title: Re: his explanation of how i am unfit
Post by: Panda39 on May 14, 2015, 07:22:15 PM
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I cannot communicate without rolling my eyes. Hence I am unfit.

Oh heavens that is just awwwwwwwwwful  lol  You horrible unfit mother you!

                                                                                                               

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