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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: gomez_addams on May 28, 2015, 06:15:44 AM



Title: Eyes on the prize...
Post by: gomez_addams on May 28, 2015, 06:15:44 AM
When this is all over and done, I'm going to make a mini-bucket list.

Most of them will be cheap or even free... .I'm going to try to have some fun, try some new things, and try to learn a few things.

When that glorious day draws near, I'll post my mini bucket list. I'll probably need some accountability to make sure I don't end up on the couch watching Netflix.

Gomez


Title: Re: Eyes on the prize...
Post by: enlighten me on May 28, 2015, 06:21:18 AM
I think this is important. We spend so much time looking after others needs that its very liberating to do things just for us. It gives us back our own identity.

I went and learnt scuba diving. Something I'd always wanted to do but was never able to do.


Title: Re: Eyes on the prize...
Post by: UserName69 on June 05, 2015, 05:34:17 PM
It's always a good thing to keep yourself busy and forget about your exBPD. I always wanted to try out cigars (I don't smoke cigarettes though), at the day when our rs ended official I smoked my first Cuban cigar ever. After one hour when I was done with the cigar I threw it in a trashcan, I said to myself time to move on and make a fresh new start.


Title: Re: Eyes on the prize...
Post by: mitatsu on June 05, 2015, 06:10:57 PM
To be fair if netflix is calling so be it... .for now,you do what makes you feel good and 'Trailer Park Boys' got me through the early days