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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: gomez_addams on May 28, 2015, 03:31:33 PM



Title: Got a room...
Post by: gomez_addams on May 28, 2015, 03:31:33 PM
Great news. Got a room to rent out for up to 6-8 weeks. Can't move in until Friday, but that means just one more night in a hotel.

Hopefully that will be enough time to get her to head back to her parents' place.

Gomez


Title: Re: Got a room...
Post by: livednlearned on May 28, 2015, 05:30:43 PM
That's great news -- I'm glad to hear! The distance will give you a nice buffer to process her actions/reactions, and filter your own so that you are bland, boring, beige in response to any provocations.


Title: Re: Got a room...
Post by: gomez_addams on May 28, 2015, 05:45:10 PM
... .bland, boring, beige in response to any provocations.

She hates that. But I'm going to really work on it.

Gomez


Title: Re: Got a room...
Post by: Panda39 on May 28, 2015, 08:00:13 PM
Glad to hear you have a place to stay  |iiii


Title: Re: Got a room...
Post by: ReclaimingMyLife on May 28, 2015, 10:07:03 PM
Awesome and congrats.   A serious step forward,  indeed!


Title: Re: Got a room...
Post by: gomez_addams on May 29, 2015, 09:15:34 PM
It all worked out. I have roughly 24 hours of nothing to do, except laundry, shower, sleep, and eat.

Meeting with the stbx and the parish priest tomorrow night.

Until then, going to focus on not trying to control the things out of my control. And I need some sleep.

Gomez