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Had my children stay with me this weekend and feel pretty good with how everything transpired between me and the uBPD ex gf.

I actually had for the very first time a moment of clarity from her,so much so my mouth nearly touched the floor. I said amidst conversation with her that it is pretty obvious she has some deep issues going on inside her head and she needs to get that sorted out.Now usually she would go "oh my god" or huff and puff but she said "yes I know but my focus right now is looking after the children and getting the house sorted out and then I intend to deal with that" WOW.I said no more on the matter. She also said "she knows exactly where she went wrong"

But I had to laugh this morning after I dropped my son off at school she posted the Taylor Swift song blank space on her facebook and said she was hooked on it thanks to her neighbor's/enablers daughter who is 9 years old lol.

I typed the song into google followed by BPD and this lovely article came up lol

www.psychdronline.com/blank-space-perfect-example-of-borderline-personality-disorder/#comment-76

I get the feeling that deep down she knows,now the question is will she ever do anything about it?

Woah that is quite a video.

Wow! That triggered a lot of memories for me. I wrestled with my "love the game" issues too.

I wonder if your ex really gets the BPD aspects of the song... .serious issues candy-coated in a catchy dance beat.

I don't think she grasps the concept that it is very BPD driven at all but I believe she can probably relate to the lyrics and how her life pans out totally.

I am sat here tonight quite relieved to be away from the drama.Yeah I snoop her fb because I find her behavior fascinating,no idea what is going on tonight but seems someone has pissed her off (seems like it is me) but could be any tom dick or harry as far as I am concerned but apparently she is making changes to her life and getting rid of ___wits.She got rid of me 8 months ago which I think she forgot lol