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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Beach_Babe on June 19, 2015, 10:11:25 PM



Title: advice needed
Post by: Beach_Babe on June 19, 2015, 10:11:25 PM
Should I try contacting one more time before using this airline credit?


Title: Re: advice needed
Post by: ShadowIntheNight on June 19, 2015, 10:35:44 PM
What would be the point? Use it for your good health. You don't owe this guy a dang thing. Enjoy your trip.


Title: Re: advice needed
Post by: Beach_Babe on June 19, 2015, 10:48:39 PM
Well that's the thing, I'd be using it to go home. My aunt is sick and my grandmother  is 91 years old... .it's not a fun trip or vacation given my npd/BPD parents. They refuse to even pick me up at the airport. I feel guilty not going though


Title: Re: advice needed
Post by: ThanksForPlaying on June 19, 2015, 11:12:25 PM
Well that's the thing, I'd be using it to go home. My aunt is sick and my grandmother  is 91 years old... .it's not a fun trip or vacation given my npd/BPD parents. They refuse to even pick me up at the airport. I feel guilty not going though

Two different questions

1) I wouldn't feel bad about the airline credit

2) If you want to see your aunt or grandmother, go... .If it's just to make someone else happy, think it over


Title: Re: advice needed
Post by: Beach_Babe on June 20, 2015, 02:30:20 AM
I want to see him again. After 6 tries this year, to hear he said he would never see or talk to me again. Using the airline credit is ending the hope. Having a hard time.