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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Freshstart2015 on June 22, 2015, 09:56:27 PM



Title: Introspection list
Post by: Freshstart2015 on June 22, 2015, 09:56:27 PM
Hi guys, it's been nearly two and a half years since the breakup from a 2year relationship.

I honestly can't believe how long it's taken to process every thing since we split. I was a step father to her son during that time and she split with me a week before Xmas so as you can imagine it was was a little more intense then my previous relationship breakups.

Since the split I have worked super hard on myself having produced a hefty amount of artwork and music that I am really quite proud of. I have now been in Australia for the past Month after I decided I needed a massive change of scenery. One of the main reasons for coming out here was to really get to the bottom of the last healing blocks as I felt living 3 streets away from our old place we had together was limiting the final stages of closure.

My question to all you lovely people on here is: can you help me compile a list of really deep, into personal questions I can ask myself to get to the bottom of healing?

I can't keep this lingering over me anymore, no matter how well my friends and family have Said I'm doing since the split. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated :)