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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Herodias on June 29, 2015, 09:28:20 PM



Title: Facebook and absolute insanity
Post by: Herodias on June 29, 2015, 09:28:20 PM
Ok, I know you don't want me looking at their Facebook pages, but I swear it is making me see how screwed up they are and I don't want any part of this anymore! My stbx has just become friends on Facebook once again with the chick I found in my bed on Xmas that caused the split... .and she is now friends with his current gf as well! How screwed up is that? The chick in my bed knows all of the info on him from me when I called 911 that night! I am wondering if he wants her to help him break up with the current one... .since she is being so over the top clingy with all the love comments all over FB. So disgusting!


Title: Re: Facebook and absolute insanity
Post by: Tim300 on June 29, 2015, 09:38:32 PM
Ok, I know you don't want me looking at their Facebook pages, but I swear it is making me see how screwed up they are . . . 

Yes, this would be a good place to confirm their insanity.


and I don't want any part of this anymore!

Block.  Block it all out and move on.


Title: Re: Facebook and absolute insanity
Post by: Hadlee on June 29, 2015, 09:42:17 PM
Aren't you glad to be away from that chaos?

Sounds like game playing at its finest.  In the end... .there are no winners.  Craaaaaazy :)


Title: Re: Facebook and absolute insanity
Post by: Herodias on June 29, 2015, 10:02:04 PM
I can't tell you how freeing this is! It's so disgusting- I don't feel sad anymore! 


Title: Re: Facebook and absolute insanity
Post by: Invictus01 on June 29, 2015, 10:44:49 PM
I am watching one of my Facebook friends in a matter of about 3 weeks going from completely heart broken around Mother's day to being in love with somebody else, practically bringing down Facebook servers with a constant stream of pictures with the new guy. I am biting my tongue not to ask her how the hell this is possible... .


Title: Re: Facebook and absolute insanity
Post by: Herodias on June 30, 2015, 02:44:33 AM
Invictus, you know exactly how that's possible- I have a friend dating a guy she met online and he told her he loves her in one week- amongst all the other signs. I told her she is dating a narcissist- I know it to be true and be careful. I warned her that's all I can do. It's hard to tell though because when my husbands girl was warned that maybe this wasn't a good idea for her, she didn't listen and stopped being friends with those people! I'm dying to know if this girl knows that she is the one he slept with to break up our marriage and if she is back in town. I'm shocked after she was lied to by him she is friends with him again if FB. I'm beginning to think she knew all along we were still together! I can't figure out why she would be friends with his girlfriend , but they all work together - ugggh! It does keep you focused on them- so screwed up!


Title: Re: Facebook and absolute insanity
Post by: zundertowz on June 30, 2015, 01:18:56 PM
The one thing I have done right in this whole mess is staying off her FB page... .her face is a distant memory to me... .part of it could be cause i dont care what shes doing but staying away from FB was really important for me.


Title: Re: Facebook and absolute insanity
Post by: UserName69 on June 30, 2015, 03:00:05 PM
The best thing to do when you decide to move on is to block everything that reminds you of your ex, staying friends on FB isn't a good move I think. A lot of people use this platform for their revenge campaign.