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Title: One word of advice for Nons Post by: Tim300 on July 03, 2015, 07:05:22 AM If you could give one word of advice for Nons, with respect to BPD, what word would you choose?
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: Beach_Babe on July 03, 2015, 07:08:15 AM Run. Lol
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: 123Phoebe on July 03, 2015, 07:09:42 AM :check: Detach
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: Sunfl0wer on July 03, 2015, 07:35:48 AM Above all... .
Self care, self love (A whole sentence may be needed to convey a thought... .or the thought may be missed?) Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: Pretty Woman on July 03, 2015, 08:31:33 AM 1) trust your gut
2) if this person has had a substantially crazier romantic life than you rest assured you will be another sideshow in their circus. Get out now. Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: mywifecrazy on July 03, 2015, 08:33:28 AM Wake-Up!
As in start evaluating things with your head and not your heart. It was very hard for mE as my uBPDxw had me so mind F¥€KED that I truly believe that I was brain washed. I still feel like I have PTSD symptoms from coming to the reality that there was no REALITY with who she portrayed herself to be. Waking up so the FOG will start to lift. Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: Hawk Ridge on July 03, 2015, 08:39:10 AM If we feel compelled to be the white knight, let us be the white knight to ourselves.
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: fromheeltoheal on July 03, 2015, 08:43:14 AM Detach
Forgive Find compassion OK, that was more than one word; your rules are so tough Tim! But hey, at least now I can get a word in edgewise... . Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: Yolanda123 on July 03, 2015, 08:47:40 AM Let go
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: Mutt on July 03, 2015, 10:46:31 AM Radical acceptance.
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: rotiroti on July 03, 2015, 10:57:43 AM Trust your gut.
I remember feeling like an unwanted guest in my own home. Love shouldn't be like that Just want to say this is an awesome thread. Reminds me that with knowledge, healing and moving on are within grasp! So thanks everyone :) Happy Independence Day Weekend everyone! Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: SurfNTurf on July 03, 2015, 12:22:30 PM Have no expectations
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: DyingLove on July 03, 2015, 01:01:30 PM But at what point? Before, or during relationship if any?
Going into a RS with the knowledge that the person has BPD because they were up front. I'd have to say, enter at your own risk and educate yourself. Already being in a RS without the knowledge that the person has BPD because they didn't know or lied to you. I'd have to say, educate yourself and evaluate if the risks are worth staying. (I'd wanna say run for the hills, but saying that to someone in love may only make them resent your opinion) We can also be killed crossing the street. Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: myself on July 03, 2015, 03:47:22 PM Self-respect.
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: Mutt on July 03, 2015, 04:11:46 PM It would be interesting to take these words of advice for the non-disordered and make a word cloud with a site like wordle. The more a word shows up it gives it more prominence.
I'd be interested to see what that word cloud looks like. Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: Panda39 on July 03, 2015, 04:25:36 PM Boundaries!
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: Invictus01 on July 03, 2015, 04:52:45 PM Beer. It makes everything better :)
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: search4peace on July 03, 2015, 05:09:14 PM self-love
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: disillusionedandsore on July 04, 2015, 12:49:34 AM Read up on abuse
Title: Re: One word of advice for Nons Post by: FannyB on July 04, 2015, 01:49:22 AM Don't!
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