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The first law of thermodynamics is this: For every action, there is a equal and opposite reaction.

Scripture is full of 'consequences' to poor choices / rewards for good choices.

Our country is governed by laws and rules, and consequences for breaking the laws and rules.

Every board game comes with a set of instructions and rules... .

For heaven's sake, I am a Libra and my sign is balanced scales.

My girlfriend creeped my ex husbands facebook.

I have him blocked, and I am not friends with anyone he is friends with.

The ex was on vacation with his latest woman... .from the picture, I can't tell how old she is because she is a larger woman, and I can't tell if she has kids... .but I can tell that she is a party hound.

The ex has a recent pic of my boy on his page but the pics of my girls are 4-6 years old.

So looking at his 'friends' list... .the woman he had an affair with, is one of his 'friends'.

The rest of his friends are clowns he ran with 25 years ago. People who never grew up. People who are perpetually stuck in the 80's.

I knew, he never stopped talking to his mistress. I knew when he told me "oh I keep her phone number in my phone because if she calls I know it's her and not to answer" IT WAS A LIE.

I knew, he had an extra phone in his back pack, that never left his side... .

I knew he was pretending to be 'the model husband / father' for all to see when really on the inside, he loathed it and wanted to be 19 again riding his motorcycle chasing girls and drinking excessively. Sitting around playing video games, running up his bills and not paying them, never being responsible for anything... .

I knew, and I told people THIS IS WHO HE IS... .and everyone said I was crazy.

YET THERE HE IS on facebook, the REAL him... .

I was right.

I was not crazy.

He's a monster, I was right all along... .

Why does he get to lie, cheat, steal, and be a piece of spit; and everybody just loves him... .and I am the 'mean old ex wife'?

Why does it bother me?

I don't care what those people (his mom, brother, sister in law, and his friends list on face book) think about me, I know the truth.

I told my son yesterday (24) The family curse stops with you. Great Grandfather, Grandfather and Father are all adulterers, manipulators, Narcissist, pornographers. Every generation, worse than the one prior.

My nephew can carry on the family tradition. He's more disgusting than the 3 prior. NOT MY SON.

I told him HE knows right from wrong, HE KNOWS The Lord. HE KNOWS. And if he starts to head down the path of his father or grandfathers; I will CALL HIM to the rug. He cannot repeat the pattern... .

I knew my ex was doing all the things his face book CONFIRMS he was doing.

I knew my ex was mentally / emotionally a teenager, his facebook CONFIRMS that.

I just want to point and say "see, see see I was right."

Why do I do that?

I just want to not care... .like, looking at a total strangers face book and going "oh that's nice" and then move on and never give it another thought... .

Newton's third law of motion*

I know exactly how you feel, been where you are. I just stopped looking, actually I just haven't been on FB in a week. Avoid the triggers! It sets you off as you still have feelings for him, like I have for my ex.

Block him on everything including FB if out find it so hard.

Our neighbor, who is 54 years old, made a pass at our daughter (then 24).

She was freaked out / grossed out.

I told him what the pervert did (my ex and he were buddies).

The ex still hangs out with the pervert... .NOW I know why.

My ex's girlfriend is only 28. He is almost 46.

His girl toy is only 3 years older than his oldest child.

I puked in my mouth a little bit.

No wonder my ex never 'had a man to man' talk with the neighbor about his inapproriate text messages to my daughter. He's a disgusting pervert too. Which is NOT new news... .but the confirmation is sickening.

I understand how you feel.  Today I saw comments on FB from 'friends' of his.  Basically, they have been taken in by the nice guy act and still think he's Mr Wonderful.  They haven't heard my side of the story because I believe he has made sure they do not ever want to speak to me again.  Heaven knows what he has told people about me but sure as hell it won't be the truth.

It makes me sick to think that some people still think he's great.  I actually almost felt sorry for the replacement today.  She doesn't have a clue what he's really like.  Give it a few more years though, and I expect she will find out.

It really seems so unfair that they can get away with their act.  Why can't people see them for what they really are?

One of the best decisions for me after the break-up.