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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Pacify on July 20, 2015, 09:22:17 PM



Title: Mindfulness
Post by: Pacify on July 20, 2015, 09:22:17 PM
Can someone with BPD/npd understand or even grasp mindfulness or cbt?  Is this something I can introduce in hopes of helping her get out of her own head?

Has anyone had experience with this?


Title: Re: Mindfulness
Post by: waverider on July 21, 2015, 05:44:00 AM
It is a step in the right direction but it is something that does not come easy.

My wife practices mindfulness with one of her support workers

I find my wife sometimes cannot do mindfulness and finds it confronting, at other times she gets so deep into it that coming out of it is stressful. It is a case of not keeping it in perspective, nor being able to easily take it on board in daily life. Its like a switch that is either on or off, rather than a background overlay.

CBT at this stage is just too hard for my wife. I think its effectiveness may depend on what stage they are at. It is important as a eventual recovery tool though I believe.