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Title: I hope someone can understand Post by: Adam_Michael on August 07, 2015, 01:54:34 AM I've been married now for two years and I have recently come to the conclusion that my wife suffers from this disorder... I can't connect with her meaningfully and it's tearing me apart. I don't want to make this about me but I don't know what to do... .I've had very loving relationships and this one just isn't fulfilling for me... How do I get through to her? How do I cope with my own despair? What can I do?
Title: Re: I hope someone can understand Post by: married21years on August 07, 2015, 02:57:31 AM hi welcome
read read and read some more don't tell her your suspicions, don't try to fix her. work on you as you are hurting you can only change you! GL bud all here for you Title: Re: I hope someone can understand Post by: SGraham on August 07, 2015, 03:29:22 AM Welcome to the family adam,
Like married21years said, take care of yourself above all else. It is easy to fall into a trap where you think you can sacrifice your happiness for someone else's. SG Title: Re: I hope someone can understand Post by: waverider on August 07, 2015, 07:41:41 AM *welcome*
Start off by working your way through these links: LESSONS (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=56206) They put things into a logical format, as it can be a bit overwhelming. To a degree it is about you to, Waverider |