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Title: Short fuse Post by: DevilRays95 on August 08, 2015, 02:50:47 AM How do/did you deal with how quick you can set your SO off? It just seems like everything little thing that my PWB doesn't like starts a big fight that lasts from a couple hours to a couple days. Yesterday she started one because I was in a bad mood and I was a little bit rude. The time before that she broke up with me for 2 days because I was a little rude (pretty sure I just said did you really only get me 10 chicken nuggets) because I gave her money to get me food and was disappointed she only brought back $1.50 worth of food. (Not to mention I just woke up so obviously I'm not going to be the most pleasant). She later confessed she used the other money on a milkshake. If I don't agree with her opinion she says that I think she's an idiot. It's just hard to keep my fuse going so long before I stop it when she just blows up on impulse.
Title: Re: Short fuse Post by: married21years on August 10, 2015, 05:49:27 AM hi
look at the lessons on validation, this may help lesson the effect GL |