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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: Park on September 02, 2015, 01:02:52 PM



Title: Confused
Post by: Park on September 02, 2015, 01:02:52 PM
It's been 8 months.  And a rollercoaster in hell.  I love her.  She attacked me with knife, and today is her first court date.


Title: Re: Confused
Post by: lovers knot on September 02, 2015, 02:13:26 PM
It's been 8 months.  And a rollercoaster in hell.  I love her.  She attacked me with knife, and today is her first court date.

What exactly are you confused about? I realize that this is a very difficult situation for you, and perhaps for others involved, and that you love her, but to be attacked by a knife and to then have this court date must truly be difficult, and one that I'm completely empathetic towards (as a child, I saw my mother thrown through a glass shower by my sociopathic, insane stepfather, which really damaged my mind; seeing my mother in pain, bleeding, bruises all over her body, etc., left a long-lasting impression, and so violence of this kind is something I'm hyper-sensitive to, regardless if it is family, friendships, whatever it may be).

Anyway, please know that being on this site, on these boards, can really help you talk out your frustrations, help you learn more and cope with your anxieties, worries, confusion, and everything in-between!

We're here for you!

How exactly are you confused? Are you confused about whether you should stay with her or leave her? Or... .?


Title: Re: Confused
Post by: an0ught on September 04, 2015, 04:34:43 PM
Hi Park,

how did it go? Are you still living in the same place or did you see her now after some time.

It certainly is a touch dilemma you find yourself in. And you are dealing with it after a long roller coaster ride. 

Take good care of yourself, and *welcome*

a0