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Title: Should I stay or go? Post by: Wall bike on September 06, 2015, 09:04:41 AM What was the one thing that happened that made you know you had to go>
Title: What made you stay? Post by: Wall bike on September 06, 2015, 09:25:34 AM What made you stay?
Are you glad you did? Title: Re: Aha moment, final straw? Post by: Bigmd on September 06, 2015, 09:32:38 AM Well I got dumped two weeks after she said she loved me so much and really appreciated everything I do for her. I realized after she carried most of the BPD traits. After days of reflecting on our 6 years. I think back to all the trivial arguments in which i almost always thought I was wrong, too many silent treatments to count followed by making up like nothing happened ,the insecurity and criticism etc... .. All makes sense to me now.
Title: Re: What made you stay? Post by: 123Phoebe on September 06, 2015, 12:18:01 PM Hi Wall bike
Are you glad you did? Yes, absolutely! Or I wouldn't still be hanging around here trying to help people understand these kooky dynamics better :) Realizing that I was contributing to the kookiness was a real eye-opener Still contribute at times, but am so much more aware and accepting of both of our "dynamics" :thought: We're a real dynamic duo *) Title: Re: What made you stay? Post by: Skip on September 06, 2015, 12:26:51 PM Hi wall bike.
You've mentioned having a fried with BPD or BiPD… can you tell us some of the back story? How long have you been "friends". What happened that you are thinking of walking away? Skip |