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Title: Day 14 NC BROKEN, I can't even... Post by: Infern0 on September 10, 2015, 06:58:06 AM Just when I think she can't cease to amaze me she pulls one right out of left field.
I can't post details on this forum as she browses this forum and will identify me if i say what she was "requesting" of me, but let's just say she has NO understanding of boundries. Furious. Again Title: Re: Day 14 NC BROKEN, I can't even... Post by: enlighten me on September 10, 2015, 07:12:36 AM Hi Inferno.
Its good to vent. Just when I think Ive ceased to be surprised by anything my exs do they do something that takes me by surprise. Were here for you. Title: Re: Day 14 NC BROKEN, I can't even... Post by: lovenature on September 10, 2015, 10:12:09 PM I know how tough it is to not respond to the ridiculous, unrealistic words/behaviours. Remember they are mentally ill and coping. Mine showed incredible lack of boundaries too.
Just continue NC and don't engage in the craziness. |iiii Title: Re: Day 14 NC BROKEN, I can't even... Post by: BorisAcusio on September 11, 2015, 07:18:24 AM Protective barriers like blocking are rarely circumvented after the initial extinction burst. Keep the radio silence, take preventive measures and she's going to be out of your life.
Title: Re: Day 14 NC BROKEN, I can't even... Post by: Skip on September 11, 2015, 09:30:30 AM It's hard for anyone to know the rules when there have been recycles…
Has she lost respect for you? I think when that happens, the best thing is to be strong. don't complain, back away, be scarce (not necessarily NC) I know you still care for her and wish she would engage in a meaningful way. You didn't get that last time around or even now. See it for what it is. |