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Title: NC really does work Post by: Loosestrife on October 02, 2015, 02:42:12 AM Hi
I'm now over 2months NC and I feel like a different person. The most helpful words I have held with me when my ex has tried to get back in contact were: "Have trust in the process" My T has suggests one more session only (strange to think that I didn't actually need any T before I got involved with BPD), I'm exercising and socialising again, and I feel great. I've even started dating and met some wonderful nonBPDs- which was a great reminder of what life could be in a hekathy relationship. Thank you to all my 'family' on here that has helped/supported me. I am now in the other side and I am never going back. Title: Re: NC really does work Post by: enlighten me on October 02, 2015, 02:45:21 AM Hi Loosestrife
Im glad things are going so well for you and thank you for posting this as it gives hope to all those starting on this path. EM Title: Re: NC really does work Post by: Darsha500 on October 02, 2015, 11:02:37 AM Congrats on the progress LC!
Title: Re: NC really does work Post by: hopealways on October 02, 2015, 10:26:33 PM Yes it really does work. I am 10 weeks out and of course I do think of her still and wonder if she will come back (again) but I am getting back to not only my old self but also a super version of my old self who I actually don't recognize but at the same time miss, if that makes sense.
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