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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: blackorchid on October 07, 2015, 02:59:46 AM



Title: It's like we dot exist, anyone have a positive outcome?
Post by: blackorchid on October 07, 2015, 02:59:46 AM
It feels like my BBP boyf has deleted me from his life. He has deleted me from all forms of social media and blocked my phone numbers.  When asked if he could look after OUR dog (whom he normally adores) he said she has nothing to do with him.  I have nothing to do with him.  We're finished, remember.

When his friends ask about me he gets angry at them and refuses to talk about me for even one second.


Is this BPD behaviour?  has anyone experienced anything like this and they've returned? It's 4 weeks now.  I can't remember such an extreme reaction from him or it lasting this long... .:'(


Title: Re: It's like we dot exist, anyone have a positive outcome?
Post by: Lou12 on October 07, 2015, 04:34:18 AM
Oh yes it's totally BPD bahaviour! Your presently split black. Statistically men seem to return move than women. Maybe you can gage what his BPD style is by previous returns, ie... if he has returned before?


Title: Re: It's like we dot exist, anyone have a positive outcome?
Post by: AsGoodAsItGets on October 07, 2015, 06:10:55 AM
Mine did come back several times.  Also got do feall with the several relationship that came with each time, mean new partners or replacements.  Lol.  So woeth it, not


Title: Re: It's like we dot exist, anyone have a positive outcome?
Post by: Lou12 on October 07, 2015, 09:02:23 AM
It's horrible, I'm so glad I'm feeling so much stronger! I never thought I'd get to a point were I can carry on life as normal without my BPD predicting my day!