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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: jasonb on October 07, 2015, 01:13:04 PM



Title: no longer in denial
Post by: jasonb on October 07, 2015, 01:13:04 PM
hello, I am Jason.

I am a people pleasure/fixer. I am in a toxic relationship with a npd, BPD, histrionic.

I  want to leave, but don't quite have the tools yet. Every time I try I get sucked back in. This whole ordeal is confusing, depressing, has me anxious, but I believe it will eventually be enlightening.



Title: Re: no longer in denial
Post by: Lucky Jim on October 07, 2015, 02:48:05 PM
Hey Jason, You are among friends here, many of whom (including me) share your tendency to caretake others.  It's part of the usual dynamic between a Non and a pwBPD.  We know the pattern, believe me.  Maybe you could tell us more about your SO and why you think she is NPD, BPD or HPD?  LJ