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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: courtb on October 25, 2015, 02:42:47 PM



Title: hi
Post by: courtb on October 25, 2015, 02:42:47 PM
hi , im courtb & im in love with someone who has severe BPD , ive got issues myself , & i feel like theyre nothing to her , i try to tell her my feelins & she completely tosses it aside like i dont matter , im sick of feeling this way , i dont know what to do or say , ive been dealing with this without help for five years now.


Title: Re: hi
Post by: babyducks on October 25, 2015, 05:01:00 PM
hi courtb

welcome 

Five years is a long time.   There is help here.    Let me attach this link as a good place to start your reading.

What is Borderline Personality Disorder? (https://bpdfamily.com/tools/articles2a.htm)

When I first got here I didn't know very much about BPD.   Without meaning too some of the things I did and said made things worse.     What helped me a great deal was the Lessons.   They can always be found in the box that runs down the right hand side of the screen.   Or you can use this link.

Lessons Here (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=56206.0)

Are you two living together currently?

'ducks



Title: Re: hi
Post by: unicorn2014 on October 26, 2015, 01:36:46 AM
Hi courtb   and welcome to BPD family!   You are no longer alone. As baby ducks said a good place to start exploring this site is the lessons to the right, the first ones start with understanding BPD behaviors. Do you feel like you have a good grasp of them?