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Title: Why are codependents confused after breaking up - Ross Rosenberg Post by: Inside on November 04, 2015, 08:17:30 AM Just stumbled onto the following and wish I’d have found it several years ago. It describes my experience, to a degree (codependency)... .
Link: Why are codependent confused after breaking up (https://youtu.be/3bfKLJ5YGyQ?t=4m21s) For the codependents, what I see often is after a day, two, after a week, they start to yearn for that person they fell so deeply in love with... . There’s a "Part One" and "Part Three" that add little more. Part Two in particular focuses on BPD and Codependency. And if it's been posted previously, I apologize. Finally free from my relationship and I’m moving ahead in life. There’s a lot of life out there and working on not letting ‘this stuff’ happen again. Title: Re: BPD & Codependency Video Post by: cloudten on November 04, 2015, 10:29:35 AM this was good
Title: Re: BPD & Codependency Video Post by: cloudten on November 04, 2015, 10:34:59 AM part 3 is good too
Title: Re: Why are codependent confused after breaking up - Ross Rosenberg Post by: Unaware on November 04, 2015, 03:58:58 PM Inside,
Thanks for the link. It sure did answer a lot of questions I've been pondering. Curious, has anyone read Ross' book? Unaware Title: Re: Why are codependent confused after breaking up - Ross Rosenberg Post by: Skip on November 04, 2015, 04:02:01 PM It's pretty good.
The narcissist and borderline in Rosenberg's presentations tend to be on the extreme ends of the spectrum, however, there is a derivation of much of what he says in people further down the spectrum. Its helpful. Even if your ex didn't go to the extremes he points out, the root of the thinking is there. We set the link to start in at 4 mins and 21 seconds - right at the codependency section. |