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Title: Relations and cooping Post by: qwaszx on November 08, 2015, 01:22:13 PM Do you ever find yourself after the BPD relationship was over, bringing some of the coping mechanisms u needed for that relationship into your new relationship?
Title: Re: Relations and cooping Post by: eeks on November 08, 2015, 05:03:10 PM Do you ever find yourself after the BPD relationship was over, bringing some of the coping mechanisms u needed for that relationship into your new relationship? Hi qwaszx, Can you be more specific about which coping mechanisms you are talking about? I'd also be interested to know which behaviour on the part of the pwBPD triggered the coping mechanism behaviour in you, and which behaviours on the part of your new partner seem to trigger the same coping mechanism. |