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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Marshmellow on November 30, 2015, 02:40:25 AM



Title: What the heck?
Post by: Marshmellow on November 30, 2015, 02:40:25 AM
Hi staff

Just wondering...

After ending breaking it off with ex BPD/OCD bf two months later I get a text... That says:

You and Rosie( my little dog) should come up and visit sometime...

Why would a person say that... after I explained I couldn't take any more rage or crazy making episodes to create distance, asking for no further contact.,

What on earth could prompt this?

Thank you!

Aldactone...


Title: Re: What the heck?
Post by: OutOfEgypt on November 30, 2015, 08:48:30 AM
Mental illness.

That is behavior that is very familiar to probably all of us, here.  My wife is experiencing this, as well, as she deals with my ex-wife.  Sometimes even minutes later, it's like nothing ever happened.

There is no other explanation than that.  Gotta let that sink in.  They are broken.


Title: Re: What the heck?
Post by: hashtag_loyal on November 30, 2015, 09:48:54 AM
What on earth could prompt this?

Push/pull and/or difficulty detaching. This is textbook BPD behavior.