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Title: Detaching From Recycling Thoughts Post by: rosesarered777 on December 08, 2015, 11:25:25 PM I would love to understand recycling better. My ex and I were so close to building a family together and she moved away almost two months ago. She is still single but seems to be sleeping around with people from an online dating site. In the ultra brief conversation that I got going, she explained things were going "ok" and that sounded pretty negative for someone that was so pleased to be free of me. She then blocked me after I told her how well I am doing post-split.
Do they recycle you if they think you are more willing to the idea? Or do they prefer a challenge and chase after someone who is familiar but less available? Title: Re: Detaching From Recycling Thoughts Post by: C.Stein on December 08, 2015, 11:48:11 PM I think it depends on the circumstances and person. While one might like to chase, the other might like to be chased. One might recycle the other might not. There is no way to say with any certainty one way of the other.
Title: Re: Detaching From Recycling Thoughts Post by: Turkish on December 08, 2015, 11:52:22 PM Maybe the former, which yes back to our boundaries, rather than the latter? As C.Stein says it's hard to say.
Since recycling takes 2 (I did exactly once, despite being given an "out", what are your inclinations? Have you seen this? US: "Relationship Recycling" - What is it? (https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?topic=95860.0) |