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Title: BPD girlfriend left and filed an order for protection Post by: Dana on December 20, 2015, 12:13:39 AM Well I'm new here. Been 3 weeks since my girlfriend with BPD put an Domestic Violence Orders of Protection and Restraining Orders on me. With her 4 years, done my best, gave my heart to her, all the love I could show. Yeah she has ripped my soul out, no closure, barely hanging on to my job, cannot function.
Title: Re: Bpd gf left filed ofp Post by: tryingtohelp on December 20, 2015, 02:17:08 AM Hello Dana
Sorry to hear what you have been put through, take care of yourself ( as hard as that seems right now ) You basically have to 're-group' look after yourself and get your life in order without her for now, and give her some time and you will probably hear from her . Do not chase after her however much you may feel the need to, it won't work, don't pressure her , don't appear 'needy' . Just get on with some other things , especially things that make you feel good , meet some other people as well. You will get through this , she is the one who is not functioning , don't let her illness damage you as well. Title: Re: Bpd gf left filed ofp Post by: Dana on December 24, 2015, 02:45:33 PM Will she contact me
Title: Re: Bpd gf left filed ofp Post by: Dana on December 24, 2015, 03:01:34 PM Will she call me eventually
Title: Re: Bpd gf left filed ofp Post by: Fian on December 24, 2015, 03:09:13 PM Magic Ball: Yes
Title: Re: Bpd gf left filed ofp Post by: Turkish on December 25, 2015, 12:47:42 AM Hi Dana,
I'm sorry that you are hurting from this. Many of us here have had the stress and pain bleed over into other aspects of our lives. Can you tell us more about what led her to file an order for protection against you? What happened? Turkish Title: Re: BPD girlfriend left and filed an order for protection Post by: Skip on December 25, 2015, 04:06:13 PM Tell us more so that we can help.
What was the break up all about? Why did she she claim in the court order of protection? |