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Title: 2015 Gratitude to YOU Post by: ReclaimingMyLife on December 31, 2015, 02:40:50 PM Happy New Year, bpdfamily Peeps!
Congrats to all of us for living through whatever version of hell we experienced in 2015. Mine sucked in so many ways. And yet, I did everything I needed to do. Which was so hard at times. But I did it. So while 2015 sucked, there was much success too. I ended 2015 with a ONE YEAR of NC. I am out of the FOG. I shudder to think what my life would be like had I remained in this r/s. As I write that I actually feel some gratitude that my ex's behavior got as extreme as it did. What if he hadn't lost his sh*t? I might still be trying to sort it out... .when it was never mine to sort out. A very big lesson learned. THANK YOU for your help in getting me there! I am eternally grateful. Happy 2016 beautiful people! Title: Re: 2015 Gratitude to YOU Post by: izabellizima on December 31, 2015, 05:59:29 PM this thread has been a god-send. for real. i am sad sad sad but the fact that i KNOW i am not going through a regular breakup and others understand my pain is valuable. thanks you all!
Title: Re: 2015 Gratitude to YOU Post by: ReclaimingMyLife on January 01, 2016, 12:56:47 AM izabellizima, thank you for your reply. This is an amazing community. I am sorry you are sad, and I am glad you are here. XOXO
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