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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: ReclaimingMyLife on December 31, 2015, 03:02:54 PM



Title: HELP Can't Find but Desperately Want a Book Referenced Here
Post by: ReclaimingMyLife on December 31, 2015, 03:02:54 PM
Hoping one of you can help!  Please. 

Within the past 60 days or so, someone referenced a book here on families or parenting about not fixing the situation.    Seems like it was about not fixing things for a family member... .getting out of the middle... .letting people be responsible for themselves.  I think there was a comment that this book helped the person's family more than any other.

I have searched through book reviews on bpdfamily but cannot find it.  I think it may have been highlighted at the top of this board.  I have been trying everything I can think of on Amazon too.  It is not one of the often-referenced books here but it looked SO good for parenting any kind of kid.  Even looks good for "parenting" myself!

Fingers crossed someone can help!

Thank you :)


Title: Re: HELP Can't Find but Desperately Want a Book Referenced Here
Post by: hope2727 on December 31, 2015, 03:28:45 PM
Not sure what the book was but could it have been stop care taking the borderline or narcissist? Its the only one I can think of off hand.



Title: Re: HELP Can't Find but Desperately Want a Book Referenced Here
Post by: Skip on December 31, 2015, 05:27:15 PM
We have several book lists:

I think you are looking for: https://bpdfamily.com/book_review/gary_lundberg.htm

These are our top book endorsements: https://bpdfamily.com/content/book-reviews

Here are older staff reviews: https://bpdfamily.com/book_review/index.htm

Here are member reviews: https://bpdfamily.com/message_board/index.php?board=33.0;sort=views;desc

When you can find something, try the site map at the bottom of the webpages (and the message-board, except during funraisers).






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Title: Re: HELP Can't Find but Desperately Want a Book Referenced Here
Post by: ReclaimingMyLife on January 01, 2016, 12:44:44 AM
Wow, Skip, very impressive.  I think your first link is it exactly.   You nailed it.  Thank you!