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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Bettering a Relationship or Reversing a Breakup => Topic started by: kc sunshine on December 31, 2015, 03:32:16 PM



Title: FOG
Post by: kc sunshine on December 31, 2015, 03:32:16 PM
I was just reading about FOG on the board. I could totally interpret lots of her things she is doing (breaking up, going home with someone else after a show we saw together, and now on and off silence) as punishment for boundary-setting (well not the on and off silence now-- that might have more to do with the replacement.) Here's my question: if it is punishment, I do the same thing, right? Keep it chill, low-key? I.e. don't ask her to marry me? (which for some reason is my crazy impulse today!)


Title: Re: FOG
Post by: MapleBob on December 31, 2015, 04:07:10 PM
You keep it chill and low-key no matter what. Or else you'll learn to, the hard way. And it's for sure a challenge.


Title: Re: FOG
Post by: kc sunshine on December 31, 2015, 04:29:35 PM
You keep it chill and low-key no matter what. Or else you'll learn to, the hard way. And it's for sure a challenge.

Thanks MapleBob, Ill try to bite the bullet!