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Title: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: Rayban on January 14, 2016, 07:52:11 PM Seems to be common for them to choose or be involved people who are older then them. I'm ten years older then she is, and she mentioned she prefers older men.
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: Fr4nz on January 14, 2016, 08:01:23 PM Actually I was 6 months younger.
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: GreenEyedMonster on January 14, 2016, 08:04:07 PM I was 8.5 years younger than my exBPD.
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: Herodias on January 14, 2016, 08:23:03 PM I'm 16 years older, the current gf is 8 years younger. He has been with women all different ages inbetween!
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: Learning Fast on January 14, 2016, 08:27:31 PM Older indeed. I was 10 years older than my ex. My replacement was almost 12 years older. His replacement is roughly 9 years older. Additionally, both are multiple rungs lower on the economic ladder as well compared to her ex-husband who is toward the top of the compensation food chain as a private equity attorney. There seems to be a trend/theme developing here... .
LF Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: Confused? on January 14, 2016, 08:32:30 PM 6 years older
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: zeus123 on January 14, 2016, 08:52:52 PM BPD do not care about the age of their target(partner) because they primarily looking for narcissistic supply in the relationship. they view us as an accessory that is required and not as love partner. so anyone could become a partner regardless of age,looks,etc... .
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: Jazzy on January 14, 2016, 11:25:20 PM I am 6 years younger but his new gf is 10 years older than him.
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: steve195915 on January 14, 2016, 11:45:39 PM 9 yrs older. One of her replacements was 14 years older. She said she likes older guys. I think she thinks older guys are more stable.
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: enlighten me on January 15, 2016, 12:28:50 AM I was 3 years older. Her ex husband about 6 years younger, her last boyfriend about 15 years older and he new one the same age (I think). A wide spread.
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: neverloveagain on January 15, 2016, 01:32:28 AM 10 years older.
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: JohnLove on January 15, 2016, 03:52:26 AM 7 years older.
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: blackbirdsong on January 15, 2016, 03:57:51 AM Two years older
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: enlighten me on January 15, 2016, 05:00:56 AM Just to add to this. In the relationship did you end up or do you feel you have taken on more of a parental role than that of a partner no matter what the age gap?
Title: Re: We're you older then your BPD ex? Post by: UserName69 on January 15, 2016, 06:40:07 AM She was 6 years older but sometimes I really had the feeling that I was dealing with a little girl instead of a woman.
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