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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Rayban on January 20, 2016, 11:49:02 AM



Title: Detaching from what they say when forced to deal with exBPDgf
Post by: Rayban on January 20, 2016, 11:49:02 AM
I work with her, and after weeks of the silent treatment, she broke the silence today. It just so happen she's spending a lot more time with another coworker. Me thinks she wants to set up a little triangulation ... .why am I not surprised.

Of course she's was back to her usual self trying to make me feel bad about myself. I'm proud that I'm beginning to detach from it. My goal is to keep the peace in the workplace, and unfortunately it's going to involve her trying to demonize me. How do you folks manage to detach in such instances ?