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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: Marshmellow on January 21, 2016, 07:09:00 PM



Title: re could friendship
Post by: Marshmellow on January 21, 2016, 07:09:00 PM
my apologies ABt not being clear in prior post...

What I'm asking feedback on is, wondering if Ex is expecting me to call him since I broke things off, or perhaps Better to let it all just let it all go... ( being friends) . it has been a week, and no communication...

Could him not initiating contact, but always responding  be out of fear thinking I want to discuss the past, ( I do not) ... or maybe just doesn't give a hoot!

I know this is me needing some form of validation


Title: Re: re could friendship
Post by: Concerns on January 22, 2016, 08:44:09 AM
Hi, Marshmellow. I think if he was expecting a call and didn't get one then once he talked with you he wouldn't be so nice. I would let it go. Don't force the communication if it isn't needed. If you're hurt by your breakup then look within and out to other support/validation resources(like here! lol) rather than looking back into the old past relationship. Time away can be good sometimes.