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Title: new to group Post by: gradschool2016 on January 26, 2016, 05:12:50 AM Hello everyone... .
I found this group while searching the web... I have an adult son who has BPD. He is 22 years old and lives in a group home. He keeps calling me about 20 times a day just to see how I am doing. Any suggestions on ways I can help him controlling me so much by calling me all the time? Thanks Gradschool2016 Title: Re: new to group Post by: lbjnltx on January 26, 2016, 10:09:03 AM hi gradschool,
Welcome to the Parenting Board! Have you thought about setting some limits on how/when your son can contact you daily? Just as important as setting the limits will be enforcing them consistently. lbj Title: Re: new to group Post by: wendydarling on January 26, 2016, 11:46:28 AM Hi Gradschool2016 and welcome
What's a group home? I'm in the UK and guessing you are in the US. What do you consider reasonable contact? Perhaps agree a time that suits you both and can commit too. WDx |