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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: hippyrees1969 on January 26, 2016, 07:28:22 AM



Title: tying up loose ends after 18 year relationship
Post by: hippyrees1969 on January 26, 2016, 07:28:22 AM
i have recently left my BPD partner of 18 years (on and off). we had a home and business together which i had to leave. i want to get me stuff back but he has changed the locks. being left to cope with it all is overwhelming for him as i was doing everything. i don't know what to do, he has no one to help him deal with it. it has always been me... .



Title: Re: tying up loose ends after 18 year relationship
Post by: once removed on January 26, 2016, 06:25:05 PM
hi hippyrees1969 and *welcome*

im sorry to hear about the dissolution of your relationship, and i cant imagine the frustration with not being able to retrieve your belongings. eighteen years is a long time. it will help us better understand your situation if you share some of your story; do you have a particular question?