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Children, Parents, or Relatives with BPD => Son, Daughter or Son/Daughter In-law with BPD => Topic started by: DorTriSc on February 01, 2016, 02:15:10 PM



Title: Hi
Post by: DorTriSc on February 01, 2016, 02:15:10 PM
Hi

I am new to the site

I have a BPD son who does not know he has BPD.I am unsure whether to sit him down and tell him for fear it makes matters worse.Anybody with similar experience ?


Title: Re: Hi
Post by: AnotherWon on February 01, 2016, 04:10:42 PM
Hi!  New here too and in my over-zealous aha(!) moment I asked my son if any of his therapists had talked about this and now I regret it and wished I would have kept my mouth shut.  I'm sure others here can chime in, but I would say read everything you can on this site and put it to use and see where that takes you.  Hope that helps!


Title: Re: Hi
Post by: twojaybirds on February 01, 2016, 05:38:33 PM
My 2 cents is don't tell him.

You might want to address behaviors and and name them as approproate within the context and your relatiosnhip, but let a psych tell him.


Title: Re: Hi
Post by: wendydarling on February 01, 2016, 07:18:14 PM
Hello and welcome DorTriSc

I agree with advice above, a medical professional deliver the diagnosis to your son, they will be there to offer the road and opportunity for treatment and hopefully gain his confidence to engage in his recovery.

Are you waiting for an appointment for a diagnosis?

WDx