Title: Blame Post by: JerryRG on February 25, 2016, 04:10:43 PM I blamed myself for your unhappiness.
I blamed myself for your misery. I blamed myself for your pain. I blamed myself for your lies. I blamed myself for your drama. I blamed myself for your rage. I blamed myself for your addictions. I blamed myself for your abuse. I blamed myself for your craziness. I blamed myself for you abandoning our son. I blamed myself for not being perfect. I blamed myself for wanting to die. Then I found the truth. In AA and Alanon. I wasn't the blame for any of these things. I have changed. I am free. You, are still, you. Title: Re: Blame Post by: Teereese on February 25, 2016, 04:34:09 PM Hello JerryRG, that is huge.
I relate. I blamed myself and I allowed my stbx to blame me. He is still him. |