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Title: Excessive texting/messaging Post by: SuperJew82 on February 28, 2016, 09:01:25 PM Anyone get a crazy amount of texting/messaging after doing a NC. The text are all over the place and a bit bipolar in nature. She keeps on without the need for a acknowledgment. I have them blocked on my phone - but it sends them to a blocked folder that I can pull up later. I know I should figure out a way to stop them from ever getting to me, as I know it's not a good idea to even read them.
I got over 60 of them from this weekend. Title: Re: Excessive texting/messaging Post by: Welgrow on February 28, 2016, 09:15:05 PM Yes that happened to me too. It's mind boggling. Sorry you have to experience this. In my experience I had to not respond. Every response keeps the behavior alive. It's like rewarding a child for bad behavior. In the case of my daughter's mom it has never stopped completely but I am committed to not respond. I had to take legal action including a stalking order, but she still sends letters from jail to her probation officer to forward to me.
Title: Re: Excessive texting/messaging Post by: tryingsome on February 28, 2016, 11:31:48 PM You should be able to block them through your carrier directly, this way you will never see them.
I have kids with mine, so I have to talk with her unfortunately. Usually she might send something unimportant which I don't respond to. Eventually after no reply, she'll send something an hour later about the kids which I have to respond to. Eventually she'll find a new outlet and the txts will stop pretty quickly. |