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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: JerryRG on March 01, 2016, 10:53:05 PM



Title: Think
Post by: JerryRG on March 01, 2016, 10:53:05 PM
It's like looking into the sun, sure it's fascinating at first and yes it's bright and beautiful but after while you tear up from the burning pain and if you continue the foolishness and don't stop you lose sight and go blind... .and who do you blame?

Lol just a thought


Title: Re: Think
Post by: thisworld on March 04, 2016, 08:00:19 AM
Why, my emotionally unavailable mother and her emotionally unavailable robotic cat of course *) But now that I am no spring chicken myself and have free will, I'd rather look at my own contribution to all this, hopefully approaching myself with compassion, respect and understanding without blaming myself but taking responsibility - blame is a language my mother has ingrained in me. Each time I fall for that, that's a slip, too - and yes, I do it:))

Thank you for this inspirational post!