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Title: Baffling (non) development Post by: Lifewriter16 on March 05, 2016, 07:11:31 AM Hi All,
My BPDxbf texted me last night to apologise for blowing me out a few weeks ago (going NC) saying that he needed to 'bail' because there was a lot going on, but it wasn't just about me. I replied: 'No problem'. I asked how he was and he said he was in a very dark place, which was why he was apologising (he was sensing 'the end' and needed to 'repent'. I asked if he wanted me to pray for him, to which he said 'not really' and that he was just apologising. When I started to end the conversation, he asked me to delete his phone number. I asked why. He said he thought it was best. So he texted me to apologise for going NC and ended the conversation by going back to NC. Sigh! Love Lifewriter Title: Re: Baffling (non) development Post by: C.Stein on March 05, 2016, 08:11:25 AM I imagine this will go on for a while, until it doesn't anymore. You shouldn't let it bother you.
Title: Re: Baffling (non) development Post by: Teereese on March 05, 2016, 09:32:05 AM I wish no contact was an option for me.
There has to be some contact due to pending divorce and children. Rarely do I make contact. He tried contact via text and it pissed him off. He was trying to get me to agree to things having to do with the divorce settlement and I wouldn't answer the way he wanted, so he blew up over text. Recently he has been trying via phone ... .there is no proof of the convo, so again, I won't say much and won't.answer how he wants. He blew up over the phone and told me not to contact him ever again. Yet he is the one making contact lol Maybe I will get a little break :) He has recently told our daughter to lose his number. <sarcasm> Great guy ... .<\sarcasm> |