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Title: miserable for decades with my brother Post by: bigsadsis on March 06, 2016, 10:00:57 PM I just signed up for this website, after reading some of the posts of others - I am profoundly moved by seeing similar patterns of rage and splitting. Our parents are both dead, and I am convinced that one of my siblings suffers from BPD. And I would say that I have suffered from his suffering for a huge part of my life.
Too sad right now to relive all the details, but I'm so grateful for what I've been reading. For years I thought my conscience made no sense. Title: Re: miserable for decades with my brother Post by: Turkish on March 06, 2016, 11:17:05 PM Hi bigsadsis,
*welcome* I'm glad you decided to delurk :) When you say you thought that your conscience made no sense, do you mean that you always thought something was wrong, but felt guilty for thinking so? Turkish Title: Re: miserable for decades with my brother Post by: HappyChappy on March 07, 2016, 04:37:05 AM Hi Bigsadsis
My bro has NPD, so I understand your frustration. How far down the recovery line are you with this realisation ? What helped me was to grieve the brother I should have had. I.e. one that showed some loyalty and respect. How far down the recovery path have you go with this ? Welcome. HC |