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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Itstopsnow on March 12, 2016, 03:05:12 AM



Title: Spoke to one of his ex's today
Post by: Itstopsnow on March 12, 2016, 03:05:12 AM
I spoke to one of his ex's. The girl I warned a few months back. She was always very kind to me. And I was glad she didn't see his abusive side! They were still in the honeymoon phase when I exposed him. He was cheating on her with me and with others. She reached out to me. She is dating someone new now and is moving on. She dated him much shorter than I did. So thankfully for her had less baggage with him. She said she was talking to him up till December. And he never once apologized for cheating on her. He would say general apologies like "I'm sorry your hurting" and was still blaming me! Saying "I'm sorry blah blah involved you on this or see I told her how she was " . Which still infuriates me! He is a scumbag! And I truly never knew him! She called him out on it,  hopefully she won't talk to him again bc he will keep looking to recycle her in the future . But that's on her to decide . These people never take ownership and always play the victim card! Maybe not all but a lot do. He's so sick it should be criminal . Still blaming me and being the ass that he is.