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These lyrics help me to cope.  Maybe it would help someone else.  I'm not sure if I could copy and paste a link to the song but you can find it on youtube.  it truly is a beautiful and meaningful song.

Anita Baker  -  "Only For A While"

For a little while,

We know what heartache is

And the feel the pain the world can sometimes bring

For a little while,

We cry in the night without a single song to sing

But one day all will change

There will be no more stormy rain

Than at last we will rest forever more

So if you're in the valley (if you're in the valley now)

And life is so unkind (life is so unkind)

And if your tears keep falling (if your tears keep falling)

From your tired eyes (from your eyes)

Your burden seem so heavy (your burden seem so heavy now)

And it's hard to smile (so hard to smile)

You must remember (you better remember)

It's only for a while

For a little while, (well)

You lose someone you love

And you miss the time together that you shared

For a little while,

You feel all alone and scared

With no one there to hold

Oh the nights get long and cold

But it won't last; it will pass in time

So if you're in the valley (if you're in the valley now)

And life is so unkind (life is so unkind)

And if your tears keep falling (if your tears keep falling)

From your tired eyes (from your eyes)

Your burden seem so heavy (your burden seem so heavy now)

And it's hard to smile (so hard to smile)

Oh, You gotta remember (you better remember)

It's only for a while

Thank you,

It made few tears shed... .