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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: Mattsacre on March 21, 2016, 07:30:39 PM



Title: Just a mandatory intro
Post by: Mattsacre on March 21, 2016, 07:30:39 PM
Dated a girl who was undiagnosed but if there were 99 points of criteria for a diagnosis she'd have 98 of them.  Same old song and dance as everyone else.


Title: Re: Just a mandatory intro
Post by: nolisan on March 21, 2016, 08:20:08 PM
Welcome ... .you are in the right place.


Title: Re: Just a mandatory intro
Post by: Mutt on March 22, 2016, 11:20:13 AM
Hi Mattsacre,

*welcome*

Wow. It sounds like you dated a girl that was tops with undiagnosed BPD. All of our exes are different people and have different severity with the disorder. How long did you did you date? How long have you broken up? Who left who?


Title: Re: Just a mandatory intro
Post by: zeus123 on March 22, 2016, 11:28:07 AM
If there was 99 points of criteria for a diagnosis mine she'd have 99 of them...


Title: Re: Just a mandatory intro
Post by: Mattsacre on March 22, 2016, 12:33:23 PM
Hi Mattsacre,

*welcome*

Wow. It sounds like you dated a girl that was tops with undiagnosed BPD. All of our exes are different people and have different severity with the disorder. How long did you did you date? How long have you broken up? Who left who?

Kinda friends for years, dated for 10 months.  Waif/Hermit BPD. Ghosted each other in October.  I stayed true to N/C.  She just popped up a few weeks ago after she realized she missed me.  Like I said same old ___.  After that week recycle attempt and my almost complete non investment, I'm getting more silence.  Meh.