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Title: I'm free to be a vegetarian Post by: ropend on March 23, 2016, 06:01:07 AM My poor mad sister and her sporadic hate of family members who ate meat is gone for good.
If I want to I can even become a vegan and not fear I'm somehow validating her. Does anyone else have problems like this? Title: Re: I'm free to be a vegetarian Post by: Starting_Over on March 23, 2016, 07:54:36 AM My parents, and more specifically much udBPD father, never let me have my own beliefs. They believed that I was religious despite the fact that I married a non-Christian, and had not gone to church in years. Since I went no contact I finally feel that I can exist and just be without having to always be on the defense.
Title: Re: I'm free to be a vegetarian Post by: HappyChappy on March 24, 2016, 06:51:34 AM BPD often have mechanisms for beating us up, as most people are meat eaters that’s a cunning one to use. Control is often a big issues with a BPD family. Control issues often manifest in eating disorders. My sis has one and is also vegetarian. Personally I only eat things that fall naturally from trees, like squirrels. :)
Title: Re: I'm free to be a vegetarian Post by: ropend on March 30, 2016, 12:47:04 AM BPD often have mechanisms for beating us up, as most people are meat eaters that’s a cunning one to use. Control is often a big issues with a BPD family. Control issues often manifest in eating disorders. My sis has one and is also vegetarian. Personally I only eat things that fall naturally from trees, like squirrels. :) lol lol lol I'm copying that joke. My attempt to be a Vegetarian failed (this time) but there's no one around to attack this and if I choose to try again I'm free do to that too. :) |