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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Detaching and Learning after a Failed Relationship => Topic started by: JQ on March 28, 2016, 01:38:14 PM



Title: Codependency Recovery & taking an Active Role in Our Own Future
Post by: JQ on March 28, 2016, 01:38:14 PM
Hello Group 

I've enclosed a link to a Youtube webinar conducted by Ross Rosenberg, the author of "The Human Magnet Syndrome" which explains the opposite attracks each other like magnets. It talks about codependent recovery process, our recovery is within us! WE have to take an active role in our own recovery and to succeed in future relationships!

I believe that we all know about the BPD and their Cluster B mental illness ... .we discuss quite in depth here ... .but what I believe lacks the attention is a discussion of US ... .us as the Codependent. 

So ... .here is the foundation you, us, we can build not only to help yourself learn and become a recovered codependent ... .but reinforce it in all of us. Knowledge is the key to success.

I hope that his helps everyone as needed.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mMPaKJfrZrA

JQ


Title: Re: Codependency Recovery & taking an Active Role in Our Own Future
Post by: WoundedBibi on March 28, 2016, 01:55:31 PM
Thanks  |iiii

I wanted to go and look for that Human Magnet stuff. How did you know  :)?


Title: Re: Codependency Recovery & taking an Active Role in Our Own Future
Post by: JQ on March 28, 2016, 02:07:30 PM
Thanks 

I wanted to go and look for that Human Magnet stuff. How did you know  ?

Hi WBB,

Hey we codependents have the "sense" about us ... . 


Title: Re: Codependency Recovery & taking an Active Role in Our Own Future
Post by: JerryRG on March 28, 2016, 02:38:30 PM
Lol, I'm on that road as well, if I knew then what I know now... .Oh hell it wouldn't have made any difference 

Enjoy! Keep laughing


Title: Re: Codependency Recovery & taking an Active Role in Our Own Future
Post by: nolisan on March 28, 2016, 02:59:18 PM
Yes Codependency s OURS to work on - we can't change anyone else.

The “PEOPLE” version of The Serenity Prayer

God, grant me the serenity to accept the people I cannot change,

Courage to change the person I can,

And the wisdom to know that person is me.


Title: Re: Codependency Recovery & taking an Active Role in Our Own Future
Post by: JerryRG on March 28, 2016, 03:13:07 PM
Lol, good one nolisan, I will use this often. So much to learn so little motivation to do the work, lol

Life is good, actually it's all we got!


Title: Re: Codependency Recovery & taking an Active Role in Our Own Future
Post by: troisette on March 28, 2016, 06:35:29 PM
Thanks for posting the link JQ, it's very good.