Title: Was anyone here trapped with a pregnancy? Please share your stories Post by: betterdayz on March 29, 2016, 08:01:55 PM Hi just wondering if anyone here was trapped with a pregnancy, by a BPD female?
What did you do. Did you try to do the honorable thing first for the childs sake? How did it go from there on... I wonder if anyone here regrets for staying in the woman's trap or moving in for x amount of time but end up leaving anyways. Really interested in your stories! Title: Re: Was anyone here trapped with a pregnancy? Please share your stories Post by: tryingsome on March 29, 2016, 08:24:13 PM I would not say trapped maybe a lot of FOG with it all.
I could say the pregenancy was purposefully, to believe it was not an accident, but that would take away from the choices I made and the responsibility that was my own. I do remember going through stages. Thinking I can make this work. Things will get better after the second child That realationship have the ups and downs. If I could last till they were 18 Finding the few pluses (sex) and holding on to that. If I could last till they turned 12. If I could last till moving. till the next holiday. Yes, I made excuse after excuse to stay in the abuse. Each time moving that I'll be out of here moment closer and closer to the present. It's been over for a bit. I still wonder if I could have made this work. That is why I work on with my T. There is a difference in the bad times being stable and going through a bump. But being a relationship with a pwBPF, the bad times become more and more frequent with each day's passing. At the end of the day. Having the children was worth it. Title: Re: Was anyone here trapped with a pregnancy? Please share your stories Post by: JerryRG on March 29, 2016, 08:50:44 PM My story almost word for word tryingsome
Thanks for sharing |