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Relationship Partner with BPD (Straight and LGBT+) => Romantic Relationship | Conflicted About Continuing, Divorcing/Custody, Co-parenting => Topic started by: JerryRG on April 08, 2016, 12:21:28 PM



Title: Today's exchange with my sons mother
Post by: JerryRG on April 08, 2016, 12:21:28 PM
Today's exchange, I think I did well?

Me

I would like to see J today if possible

Her

When?

Me

I will be done with AA by 1:30 so anytime after that

Her

K I will have to ask my mom or my church family if they can drop him off to you then. But this time he is to stay with you until the time we agree on. If u do drop him off with a family member before then, then that's between you guys but I will not pick him up until 5pm on Sunday as planned. Last weekend my day was ruined I was at church, had a church gathering, then was gonna go play soccer and couldn't... I'll tell this to my family too. I do not want Jacob NOT seeing you, he loves you. But I also can't be controlled on when YOU want to do what you want. It's hard Jerry I know believe me it's hard on me too, but thank the Lord that Jesus has already conqured all this and we just need to cooperate and do this for jacob ... .he gets so excited when he knows he's going to ur house...

Her

So with thay being said, would you like him for the day or weekend

Her

Next weekend I need him :) but you may have him on his birthday if you'd like.

Her

Anyway. Umm... so if mom can't pick him up I will drop him off ... .I'd rather not text much tho I just need to know thoughts and times and yup lol  ... .God Bless You

Me

I am still recovering from chemo so I would like to have him today and see how it goes, it isn't healthy for J or myself if I get sick

Me

I don't like being sick and I will do the best I can, you can drop him off as I don't mind, thank you

Her

I understand that, but you need to find help then cuz I can't plan my life around your needs as I am no lwowerw a part of your life but J's life if that makes sense. I will drop him off, at ur home?

Her

I have to find help just as you do. It's hard, I know. But we can talk more about that later too as the time goes on

Me

Yes please, I will be waiting for him at home, I have everything he needs.

Her

Okay. 3pm be ok?

Her

Or did u want him earlier

Her

Wait lol wow... .ok 230, plz be down stairs waiting for us though. My friend from church will help us. She will pick us up and will b there around 230, I'll text u when we r on our way. Do u need clothes

Me

Just one extra set of casual warm clothes, ty

Her

K