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Title: 6th break up in 5 years Post by: pdc62 on April 19, 2016, 04:54:45 PM I am seeing a therapist to deal with a break up that seems to happen every 6 months. She feels that my ex (today) has the BPD traits and for the first time in the relationship its finally making sense. The part I am struggling with is the loneliness and empty feeling.
Title: Re: 6th break up in 5 years Post by: Lucky Jim on April 20, 2016, 10:54:29 AM Hey pdc62, Welcome! I'm sorry to hear that you are struggling with empty feelings. How can we help? Can you fill us in a little more about your status with your Ex? It sounds like you have been in a break-up/make-up cycle of some sort. What makes you or your T think that your Ex has BPD?
LuckyJim Title: Re: 6th break up in 5 years Post by: HarleypsychRN on April 23, 2016, 10:25:25 AM Learn all you can about the disorder. Study, grow, shield yourself against further attempts at recycling. If she does have "traits" or meet the criteria for a diagnosis of BPD, you'll never fill that emotional black hole.
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